Shift Out Loud with Tracy Spears
Hosted by Tracy Spears, speaker, co-author of two best selling leadership books, founder of The Leader Lab, coach, and head cheerleader for anyone trying to play bigger. Shift Out Loud is a podcast designed to inspire you to play bigger. You'll hear from real live people sharing what their shift was, when it happened, and why it was out loud. What you think is true, and when you move from the external locus of control to the internal locus of control, your shift can happen and anything becomes possible. This podcast is your invitation to listen to others who have made the shift, and also serve as a catalyst for you to play bigger.
Shift Out Loud with Tracy Spears
Fixing Your Unhealthiest Relationship with Charity Barton
I may be cheering you on as you think and play bigger, but my guest for this episode could give me a few professional tips! Charity Barton is the University of Tulsa Cheer coach, a Director at TU's Collins College of Business, and an entrepreneur who believes in the power of storytelling. Not only is Charity a gifted and charismatic speaker, she is a TEDx alumna. Her Talk, “How to Fix Your Unhealthiest Relationship”, focuses on the effects of media consumption on mental health and self perception, and how to develop a healthier lifestyle through media literacy — a timely and necessary topic!
While Charity has experienced many shifts in her life, she has also consciously created breathing room that allows her to consider her best next steps. During our conversation, Charity and I dig into the ways in which taking gap years has helped to shape her path forward and allowed her to shift out loud on her own terms. We also discuss Charity’s experiences along the road to TEDx Tulsa and how she is redefining her relationship with mass media for the better.
Listen now to discover:
- How Charity’s ‘why’ changed in terms of seeking her degree, and how this shift affected her decision
- Charity’s TEDx process and how she prepared for this prestigious stage
- Powerful tips for interacting with media in a healthier way
Guest bio: Charity Barton is a former University of Tulsa cheerleader and alumna with a B.A. in Communications. She is a Director at TU's Collins College of Business and the TU Cheer coach. She has a Master's in Mass Communications, and recently gave her first TEDx Talk, titled “How to Fix Your Unhealthiest Relationship.”
Timestamps:
01:57 Intro
02:51 Meet Charity Barton
04:34 Gap year lessons
06:50 Influences behind her shifts
10:36 Spain & France
15:10 TEDx Tulsa
20:27 Unhealthiest relationship
23:54 Changing the input
26:51 Storytelling shift
33:33 Good/bad storytelling
38:40 Education & leadership
41:18 What’s next?
Links:
Charity Barton
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3e_q01Ym9Fk
Instagram: @iamchar.ity
The Skin I’m In by Sharon Flake
https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/skin-im-in-sharon-g-flake/1100552129
The Purpose Driven Life: What on Earth Am I Here For? by Rick Warren
https://www.amazon.com/Purpose-Driven-Life-What-Earth/dp/031033750X
Don't Drop the Mic: The Power of Your Words Can Change the World by T. D. Jakes
https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/dont-drop-the-mic-t-d-jakes/1137427897
Discover your tactical leadership toolkit: https://www.exceptionalleaderslab.com
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My resource library: https://tracyspears.com/blog
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